Empathy, kindness and love books for children

Children's books about kindness, empathy and love.

Children’s books about kindness, empathy and love

Children’s books about kindness, empathy and love Here’s our selection of great books to read with children, share with a class, discuss in circle time or PSHE or talk about in the classroom on the subjects of kindness, empathy and love. We’ve put together an uplifting and diverse selection of recommendations for preschool, primary-aged and secondary children and teens including stories, picture books and poetry by Joanna Nadin, Laura Dockrill, Kerry Drewery, Malcolm Duffy, Dan Smith, Alice Oseman, Jess McGeachin, Michael Rosen, Catherine Rayner, Satoshi Kitamura, Suma Subramaniam, Benjamin Dean, R J Palacio and more.

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Children’s books about kindness, empathy and love – our recommendations

Kindness love and empathy books for children aged 3-6

Hello!: A Counting Book of Kindnesses by Hollis Kurman

A simple counting format is blended with a powerful message of hope as young readers follow a family escaping danger on a small boat and with the help of others, finding safety and security. Hello is an empathetic, humane and kind antidote to xenophobic rhetoric, suited both to ‘people who help us’ topics with younger children and discussions about refugees, migration and tolerance in KS2.

Hello!: A Counting Book of Kindnesses by Hollis Kurman

Under the Same Sky by Britta TeckentrupUnder the Same Sky by Britta Teckentrup.
Kind by Alison GreenKind by Alison Green.
The Boy Who Loved Everyone by Jane PorterThe Boy Who Loved Everyone by Jane Porter.

The Kiss by Eoin McLaughlin and Polly Dunbar

This clever picture book tells the stories of Tiger and Crocodile as they search high and low for the perfect goodnight kiss. One half of the book follows Tiger, and the other, flipped over, follows Crocodile. A delightful and heartwarming ending blends both stories and families in the middle. It’s a joy to read to younger children.

The Kiss by Eoin McLaughlin and Polly Dunbar

Kindness Grows by Britta TeckentrupKindness Grows by Britta Teckentrup.
We're All Wonders by R.J. PalacioWe’re All Wonders by R.J. Palacio.
Two by Kathryn OtoshiTwo by Kathryn Otoshi

Five Bears by Catherine Rayner

When Bear encounters another bear while out walking, the two bears bond and concentrate on what they have in common. By the end of the story, there are five bears, each one unique and celebrated for their inclusiveness and warm-heartedness. This text, which is cleverly written to be positive and gender-neutral, will be useful to explore in circle time and PSHE when discussing friendships and how to relate to people who are different from us. We particularly liked ‘Other Bear,’ with his wild hair, and the recurring and vibrant watercolour collaged leaves. Our picture book of the month for July 2022. 

Five Bears by Catherine Rayner

My Beautiful Voice by Joseph Coelho & Alison ColpoysMy Beautiful Voice by Joseph Coelho & Alison Colpoys.
Every Child A Song by Nicola Davies & Marc MartinEvery Child A Song by Nicola Davies & Marc Martin.
The Invisible by Tom PercivalThe Invisible by Tom Percival.

Namaste Is a Greeting by Suma Subramaniam, illustrated by Sandhya Prabhat

A young girl discovers a gift for the elderly lady who lives next door while exploring the lively and vibrant city. However, the gift of a greeting is just as valuable as the gift in her hand. Namaste is a Greeting is an upbeat and moving picture book that exudes positivity, warmth, and kindness. Our picture book of the month for December 2022.

Namaste Is a Greeting by Suma Subramaniam, illustrated by Sandhya Prabhat

The Smile Shop by Satoshi Kitamura

When a young boy goes shopping for the first time, he loses his pocket money just before deciding to buy something. Disaster! But then he comes across a ‘Smile Shop’ and enters. A modern fable that is ideal for sharing, reading aloud, and discussing with students.

The Smile Shop by Satoshi Kitamura

Kind by Jess McGeachin

Be kind to ‘those who flutter’, ‘those who weave’, ‘those with shells’ and ‘those who glitter’ says this evocative hardback picture book that celebrates the value of life in every form. Exploring themes of protecting the environment, tolerance and the world around us, this is a beautiful book to share with younger children or use as an impetus for writing rhyming poetry in KS2. Kind is the perfect book to read, discuss, and celebrate on the 13th of November – World Kindness Day – and as the cover strapline says, it’s ‘a call to care for every creature.’

Kind by Jess McGeachin

Kindness, empathy and love books for children aged 7-9

The Last Bear by Hannah GoldThe Last Bear by Hannah Gold.
Michael Rosen's Sticky McStickstick: The Friend Who Helped Me Walk Again by Michael Rosen and Tony RossMichael Rosen’s Sticky McStickstick: The Friend Who Helped Me Walk Again by Michael Rosen and Tony Ross. Our picture book of the month for November 2021.
Two Sides by Polly Ho-YenTwo Sides by Polly Ho-Yen

Here We Are by Oliver Jeffers

Oliver Jeffers’ heartwarming gift of words to his young son, now available in paperback, seeks to explain our world, the universe, and how people and families all fit into it. The breathtaking illustrations make this a joy to read and share. A contemporary classic.

Here We Are by Oliver Jeffers

Nen and the Lonely Fisherman by Ian EagletonNen and the Lonely Fisherman by Ian Eagleton.
Julian Is a Mermaid by Jessica LoveJulian Is a Mermaid by Jessica Love.
Hey, Little Ant by Phillip and Hannah HooseHey, Little Ant by Phillip and Hannah Hoose

Stories of Peace and Kindness For a Better World by Elizabeth Laird

This diverse collection of folk tales, which includes traditional stories from Ethiopia, China, and Afghanistan, is also suitable for primary school assembly storytelling or reading to whole classes in KS2 PSHE. Stories of Peace and Kindness is a wonderful storybook proponent of the maxim “be kind,” with enchanting illustrations by Mehrdokht Amini and lyrical text by Elizabeth Laird.

Stories of Peace and Kindness For a Better World by Elizabeth Laird

Kindness, empathy and love books for children aged 10-12

Junonia by Kevin HenkesJunonia by Kevin Henkes.
Sona Sharma – A Friend Indeed by Chitra SoundarSona Sharma – A Friend Indeed by Chitra Soundar.
Echo Mountain by Lauren WolkEcho Mountain by Lauren Wolk

The Secret Sunshine Project by Benjamin Dean

When a family tragedy turns Bea’s life upside down, her big sister Riley is determined to restore their joy and pride. So, with the assistance of friends, the Secret Sunshine Club is formed. But will their rays of sunshine be enough to overcome a small-minded village? With a stunningly colourful cover, exuberant diversity, and a rainbow printed fore-edge, this book will stand out in any library display and beg to be explored. Our fiction book of the month for April 2022.

The Secret Sunshine Project by Benjamin Dean

When Life Gives You Mangoes by Kereen GettenWhen Life Gives You Mangoes by Kereen Getten.
In Her Element by Jamila Gavin<In Her Element by Jamila Gavin.
The Boy Who Made Everyone Laugh by Helen RutterThe Boy Who Made Everyone Laugh by Helen Rutter

Kindness, empathy and love books for young adults and teens aged 12+

No Man’s Land by Joanna NadinNo Man’s Land by Joanna Nadin.
Heartstopper by Alice OsemanHeartstopper by Alice Oseman.
The Deepest Breath by Meg GrehanThe Deepest Breath by Meg Grehan

Nisha’s War by Dan Smith

This story follows Nisha and her mother as they flee Malaya in 1942 to live with relatives in England. Life on a cold windswept clifftop house in the north is very different. Nisha initially finds the clash between her culture and English life difficult to comprehend, until she meets a mysterious boy who is not what he appears to be. This atmospheric story is ideal to teach as a class reader in years five or six. Nisha’s War, full of evocative descriptions and well-drawn characters, is also a good novel to spark creative writing ideas, as well as a great story to compare and contrast with Nina Bawden’s Carrie’s War. Our fiction book of the month for February 2022. 

Nisha's War by Dan Smith

Read Between the Lies by Malcolm DuffyRead Between the Lies by Malcolm Duffy.
Evolution by Zelda ConwayEvolution by Zelda Conway.
The Last Paper Crane by Kerry DreweryThe Last Paper Crane by Kerry Drewery

The Dream House by Laura Dockrill

This young adult novella takes readers on a visual and illustrated journey through Rex’s thoughts, fears, recollections, and dreams. The reader learns from Rex’s scrapbook and first-person narrative that after his father died, he went to live with his godfather. Rex’s once-cherished safe haven in the garden now feels different, and he must confront his emotions in order to feel happy again. The Dream House is an excellent choice for KS3 book group discussions and is sure to spark creative writing ideas in English classes. A refreshing read that will be remembered for a long time. Our fiction book of the month for September 2021. 

The Dream House by Laura Dockrill

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Kindness, empathy and love topic resources

  • World Kindness Day is held each year on November 13th – a great way to develop a culture of empathy, kindness and understanding throughout your whole school.
  • UNESCO has created a great set of free resources designed to help teachers instil kindness and empathy in the classroom.
  • BBC Teach features a raft of free video and classroom resources to help deliver Empathy Day – held annually in June – in primary and secondary schools.
  • The Kindness Curriculum offers a full set of resources for primary and secondary-aged students, underpinned by research-based teaching and practice.
  • Scholastic’s “Building a culture of kindness” articles include ideas for educational administrators and free resources for teachers of 6-12-year-olds.
  • The Red Cross has procured an interesting and engaging set of free resources for teachers of children and teenagers aged 5-18 covering kindness, loneliness, well-being and much more.
  • The National Improvement Hub in Scotland has a comprehensive upper primary resource that’s free to download and would form an excellent basis for building a new PHSE programme or study around kindness and empathy.
  • Harvard University Graduate School of Education recommends “Making Caring Common“, a free and complete curriculum for primary-aged children. It’s an excellent resource for whole staff insets.


About Tom Tolkien

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Tom Tolkien is an experienced teacher and educational consultant who taught for 20 years in primary and secondary schools, including Woodleigh School in North Yorkshire, where he was Head of English and ran a 4000 book prep school library for pupils aged 3-13. He now reviews books for children and teens. Social profiles: Twitter | Linkedin